Whether you are the happy couple with the big day coming up, or you’re a friend to the couple, here are a few social etiquette tips to remember before and during the wedding.
#TO THE BRIDE AND GROOM
The Announcement. To those who are on their way to a proposal, keep in mind how you want to let family and friends know about the announcement. We love sharing our personal news on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat and Twitter, but it probably isn’t the best or most personal way to let your close family and friends know. Step away from the social media and give those loved ones a call, you know they will appreciate it more than a tweet!
Engagement Ring Pictures. Yes, we are all dying to hear the engagement story and see pictures of the ring, but keep some of the details to yourself. No one needs to know the details on carat size or cost. Remember what the ring symbolizes, your commitment to one another.
#TO THE FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Be Respectful of the Big News. You may be one of the first to know about your best friends’ engagement and you could not be more excited, but hold off on the congrats until the couple is ready to share the news on their own. You also don’t want to spill the beans about the big news if they have not told some close family members yet.
Let the Photographer Do Their Job. Give some much-needed space to the wedding photographer(s). Let the professionals be the ones capturing the intimate and big moments at the wedding. Also, to note, the flash from your camera/phone camera could also interfere with the photographer’s and overexpose their photos.
Sharing Photos. You are probably very eager to share photos of the new Mrs. and Mr. at the wedding, but check with a close friend to the bride or groom or a family member to see if you can start sharing photos. Also, some couples opt for an unplugged wedding, so remember to respect their wishes and keep that phone in your car. If you can share photos, be mindful of the shots you are taking and double check that it is a flattering picture of everyone. And, definitely don’t share a photo of the bride before the ceremony.
Be Present. It is fun to share the news, giving a visual play-by-play with Snapchat, but while you’re at the wedding, keep it to a minimum. Be present and celebrate with everyone. There’s nothing better than just being in the moment.